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19 Genius ADHD Organization Hacks for Your Home & Family

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19 Genius ADHD Organizing Hacks to Make Your Family’s Life Easier

Having ADHD does not mean that you are doomed to struggle with keeping your home organized until the end of time.

Having ADHD myself, I am not only able to keep my home mostly organized, but I honestly don’t spend much time trying to keep it that way. An organized house is a realistic, achievable goal. The secret comes down to:

    • Well-thought-out strategies

    • Helpful habits

    • Low-maintenance organizing systems

    • Reducing excess clutter

Tailor it to Your Unique Brain

Many of us with ADHD are challenged by the same common executive dysfunctions—working memory, time management, short attention span, task initiation—but ADHD manifests very differently for different people.

    • My biggest struggle might be time management.

    • Your biggest struggle might be staying on task and following through without getting bored.

For this reason, some of these suggestions may work well for you, and others may not. My aim is to offer a comprehensive list of strategies that typically work for those with ADHD. Try the ones that resonate with you, and leave the others behind.

Use the following ADHD organization hacks to set your home up for success:

1. Establish a Launching Pad (As a Visual Reminder)

Create a dedicated system by your exit door for items that need to go with you each day.

        • Why it works: It serves as an unmissable visual reminder to grab what you need.

        • Who it helps: Great for adults rushing out the door and kids heading off to school.

        • How to set it up: Place a bin or container for each family member near the exit door.

        • What to store there: Lunches, work items, backpacks, instruments, coats, sports gear, etc.

        • When to do it: Prep it ahead of time or the night before to drastically reduce the chance of forgetting something.

My Personal Take: This is personally one of my favorite tips because I am terrible at remembering things at the last minute. I have all to do just to make sure I have my car keys in hand as I walk out the door!

2. Store Things Where You Use Them

Make clean-up as simple as possible for yourself and your family. The easier it is to put something away, the more likely it is to actually get done.

        • Match items to action: Think about the activities that take place in each space, and store everything needed right nearby.

        • Example — The Coffee Bar:

          • Group your coffee maker, supplies, mugs, and travel thermos all in one dedicated spot.

          • Now, morning preparation and clean-up are a cinch.

3. Establish Activity Zones

Every home functions better when spaces are separated into distinct work or play zones. Think of a kindergarten classroom with designated areas for reading, painting, and storytelling.

        • Identify routines: Consider what activities take place in each area of your home.

        • Group items together: Store all items needed for a specific activity right in that zone.

        • Reduce friction: Use open bins and labeled containers to make retrieval and cleanup as fast and low-effort as possible. 

ADHD Organization Hacks Family Mudroom

4. Make Things Visual to Ensure They Are Not Forgotten

Place items for tasks that need to be completed in a visible spot to help you remember to do them.

  • Out of sight, out of mind: Many of us with ADHD are visually oriented; in other words, we need to see it to remember to do it. We perpetually live in a world of out of sight, out of mind.
  • Daily medication example: Store medication you have to take every day in a bin corralled right on your bathroom countertop to remind yourself to take it.
  • Task reminders: If you have an assignment that needs to be completed, set it in a highly visible place that will remind you to work on it.

5. Distinguish Between Active and Inactive Clutter

  • Active Clutter: Items you have intentionally placed in a visible location because you need to take some sort of action on them (like the visual reminders mentioned above).
  • Inactive Clutter: Items that have been sitting unused in the same location for a long period. Maybe the item doesn’t have a home, or maybe it does… and you just haven’t gotten around to putting it away.
  • Why minimize it: Those of us with ADHD tend to get overwhelmed with visual clutter faster than those with neurotypical brains, so inactive clutter is the kind you want to minimize for your own sake.

6. See What Tasks You Can Either Automate or Eliminate

The key is to simplify your life as much as possible. The less your brain has to remember each day, the easier it will be for you to keep up with recurring tasks.

Automate repetitive tasks:

  • Set up an automatic online system for paying bills.
  • Have your pharmacy automatically refill and mail your medications to your home each month.
  • Consider investing in an automatic vacuum like a  Roomba  to vacuum for you each week.
  • Think about what other repetitive tasks you have on your plate that you can automate.
  • Eliminate high-maintenance possessions: Consider whether or not you have possessions that require a lot of effort that may not be worth it (for example, a hot tub that requires a lot of work but rarely gets used).

7. Rely on Timers and Other Devices to Help You Remember

Alarms and smart devices are what keep me on track—they are excellent tools for helping us set reminders for daily tasks that would otherwise be forgotten.

Smart Assistants (like Alexa):

Ask Alexa  to remind you to take the trash out, feed the dogs, go to the dentist, etc.

Have her keep a running grocery list for you (which, as a bonus, will help you  keep your pantry organized.

Time Management Support: Poor time management is another common executive dysfunction among those with ADHD.

Use phone alarms, timers, and devices to remind you that it’s time to make supper, time for the kids to do homework, or time for you to start getting ready for work.

8. Establish One Family Calendar to Keep Everyone Organized

Use a central, highly visible family calendar system to help your family stay on top of appointments, deadlines, chores, and activities. This ensures nothing is forgotten and there are no overlapping appointments.

Calendar Options: Use a  large whiteboard calendar or a digital option like the Skylight Calendar to help stay on top of everything that needs to get done each week.

Location: Place your calendar in a prominent area such as the kitchen, command center, or mudroom.

Paper Clutter: Curtail paper clutter by establishing a designated landing spot for all the schoolwork that comes home with your children.

If managing all the stuff that comes home with your kids each day is a challenge for you, read my other post: “The Simplest Way to Organize School Paperwork and Keepsakes.”

9. Create Incentives to Make Tasks More Interesting

Since task initiation can be an issue for both adults and children with ADHD, find ways to get around this by making household cleaning and organizing tasks more interesting to execute.

For Kids:

Make a game out of tidying up or play music to make doing tasks more fun.

Create a little healthy competition: give a small reward to the first child to finish cleaning their room or complete a chore.

For Yourself:

Listen to a favorite podcast while you work.

Incentivize your own tasks by rewarding yourself when you’re done with a nap or a warm cup of tea.

10. Declutter Regularly and Ruthlessly

 ADHD and clutter are paired, the struggle to stay organized often becomes even more pronounced.

The Lower Threshold: Being surrounded by clutter can be mentally draining for anyone, but for those of us with ADHD, visual clutter is even more overwhelming because we have a lower threshold for dealing with clutter in the first place.

Less Stuff = Less Stress: The more stuff you own and have in your home, the harder it is to keep it all organized. It also takes longer to clean, so declutter ruthlessly and regularly.

Your Best Defense: Decluttering regularly is your best defense against feeling overwhelmed as a mom with ADHD.

The Bottom Line: If I could only give you one tip that would have the greatest impact on staying organized and creating an ADHD-friendly home, it would be this one. 

Organized pantry for ADHD

11. Don’t Underestimate the Value of Sorting and Containerizing

By storing all related items together in one location, you will drastically reduce how much time you spend looking for things. Once sorted, place groups of items in a storage container so that they stay together.

        • One location for like items: Avoid storing similar items in multiple locations in your home. It is easier to remember where light bulbs and batteries live if they are all stored together in one place.

        • Track your inventory: Do you ever catch yourself searching in several locations just to find something? Storing all like items together keeps you from hunting around and helps you stay on top of your inventory.

        • Store vertically: I recommend storing anything sturdy enough to stand up vertically instead of laying flat. Not only does this make items easier to see, but you can grab what you need without disheveling or lifting other items.

        • Name your containers: Susan Pinsky, the author of “Organizing Solutions for People with ADHD,”  suggests that as you organize, it is helpful to name your bins, shelves, and drawers to make it really clear in your mind where things live. This will make it easier for you to return items to their homes with minimal effort and thought.

        •  Example: Store all of your beverage koozies together, standing up in a small container, and place it in the drink cabinet where you store your other beverage-related items.

12. In your pantry, use bins to keep related food items together.

        • Use clear, open-topped pantry bins that have been labeled. Take food out of its outer packaging so items are easy to see, grab quickly, and keep sorted.

        • Organize against impulsivity: Put healthy choices (fruit cups, nuts) at eye level, and stash cookies, chips, and candy on higher shelves so they require more work to grab.

        • Use an expandable tiered shelf to keep everything visible so nothing hides behind something else.

        • Avoid overstocking your pantry. Don’t run out of space and lose control of your inventory.

(Reread tip number 10 again—it’s the mother of all organizing tips!)

13. Have a place for everything you own so that you can find things and put them away easily.

Assigning permanent homes to everything you own ensures that clutter is kept at bay and time is not wasted looking for things. It is also important to make sure that other family members know where things are located.  Reinforce the rule that everything has a home and items need to be returned to their permanent homes when they are not being used.

14. Don’t put things off until the last minute.

        • Prepare ahead to create a cushion: Knowing my ADHD makes me forgetful, I prepare early so surprises or forgotten items don’t derail me.

        • Promote peace, reduce stress: Just like turning in homework early, getting predictable, scheduled activities out of the way ahead of time prevents last-minute chaos.

        • Example: Shop for Saturday night’s dinner party well in advance rather than Saturday morning to leave extra time for unexpected snags.

15. Lean into your family’s dumping habits.

See if you can find a way to store things where they tend to land rather than constantly moving things to a different location. If shoes seem to end up by the back door, put a shoe rack there. If coats or backpacks constantly land on the chair near the front door, install a hook rack on the wall near there. Install single hooks in places where towels, purses, or robes seem to land.

Does paperwork clutter your kitchen counter? Get some decorative baskets or bins to hide it in or put a hanging paperwork organizer on a nearby wall. Notice where clutter seems to gather and see if you can find a way to store those items where they are easy to grab and put away.

16. Create a daily 10-minute family tidying session.

This one trick will go a long way in keeping your home organized from day to day. Get your family in the habit of participating in a 10-minute family tidying session at the same time each day, perhaps right before or after supper. 

You’ll be surprised how quickly your home can go from messy to orderly when everyone pitches in and works together for just 10 minutes.

You can also make it fun by playing music.  When the music stops, everyone can stop tidying. Use caution not to overstep the 10-minute rule. If 10 minutes turns into 30 minutes, your family might become reluctant to participate.

17. Remove barriers to make unfun but necessary tasks easier to do.

If there are activities you want to encourage yourself or your family to do, make it easier to do them.  If your car is always a mess because trash builds up, place a trash can in your garage right next to your car to make getting rid of trash easier.

As an additional reinforcement, the trash can will act as a visual reminder not to leave your car without dumping the trash from that day’s travels.

In the same way, if trash buildup is a problem in your home, place a trash can in every single room to make for easy dumping. If laundry on the floor is a problem, place a laundry bin in every bedroom and bathroom.

18. Store Things Simply and Avoid Micro-Organizing

Focus on making items super easy to find, access, and put away quickly. If a system is too complicated, it will require way too much time and effort to maintain!

      • Lower the friction: Leave tops off storage containers, avoid stacking, and keep items visible rather than shoved in the back.

      • Avoid overcrowding: Once a cabinet or closet is stuffed past capacity, it stops being functional.

      • Keep systems realistic: Matching labeled glass spice jars sounds great—but will you actually take the time to refill them? Stick to simple setups, like a paperwork file with a few broad categories instead of dozens of confusing subcategories.

19. What other habits can you establish to keep your home organized?

Forming habits, such as doing homework and household tasks at the same time every day, can help you and your family feel more in control. Habits give us a sense of security and predictability that make our lives feel less chaotic. 

Keep in mind that if you really want to create lasting change and create a more ADHD-friendly home for yourself long-term, you’ll need to stick with and practice these suggestions.  

Resist giving up on the tips that require new habit formation too soon – especially if you know follow-through is a struggle for you. Be patient with yourself. It takes 21 days to create a habit, but good habits are at the heart of staying organized with ADHD.

To get more help with organizing specific rooms in your home, check out my other ADHD related posts:  ADHD Bathroom Organization Tools: Create a Clutter-Free Space, and 15 ADHD Kitchen Organizing Tips That Really Work.

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Laura Coufal

About Laura

Who I am is a Southern California turned small-town, Midwest Mom. I am wife to Bruce and mom to my three girls. I am also dog mom to Ollie and Gracie, our quirky pups.

With a B.A. degree in Psychology, I have several years experience working with families and seniors. I believe in a holistic view to organizing. Clearing our minds of the clutter and chaos in our lives is just as important as clearing our physical clutter. By taking a holistic approach to organizing, we can make lasting change.

Back when I first started my professional organizing journey in 2013, I had what I thought of as a dirty little secret. I have ADHD and although I am organized, and enjoy the process of sorting, and tidying. I knew that there were many others with ADHD who really struggled with staying organized. I had a case of imposter syndrome and mostly kept the fact that I had ADHD to myself. That is until I learned that there are other successful professional organizers who have also learned to compensate for their ADHD the same way that I have.

I eventually realized that my need for order and simplicity actually stems from having ADHD as a way to compensate for my short attention span. So my gifts and my challenges are all ironically tied together to create who I am,  and I am able to relate to and help others as a result of this coping method that I have developed for myself.

I also help those without ADHD, who struggle with too much clutter.  Because simplicity and less clutter are always at the heart of staying organized, there is much overlap when it comes to finding solutions to clutter and disorganization.

I am dedicated to keeping my life as simple as possible and to helping others do the same by teaching them how to declutter their homes, simplify their lives, and manage their busy families better.

I have been helping others stay organized since 2013.

It is my deepest hope that you will find resources here that will bring you closer to living a simpler, more intentional, and more peaceful life.

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